Our next Glow Sis Glow feature, Luna Lotus Love, is nothing short of magical. I am honored to feature this beautiful soul. As a creator, mother, entrepreneur, and woman of many layers, her energy is not only transferable, but mesmerizing. The ancestors have laid a power on her no man can take away. You are appreciated Sis. We celebrate YOU! Glow Sis!
Here at Twisted. Curly. Cool. we use our stories to inspire, uplift, warn, encourage and comfort one another. Your spirit resonates with me and your energy is contagious. Tell us about Luna Lotus Love. Take us down the path that brought you to this very moment. Tell us your story.
I am a woman. I am a deeply passionate, magical and creative black woman working to unveil the truth of myself through my talents and works. I am an artist, music is my medium, and as my understanding of sound continues to grow on a spiritual level, I am lead into new ways to express and cultivate its healing properties. Sound vibration is energy, energy is spirit and I am becoming more aware of the power and purpose of my words (and songs) as an access point of creation/creativity in my life. (When you think about the portals of creation we think of the sacral chakra, or the energetic center of physical reproduction, but we can’t forget about the throat chakra and the tongue’s power to create through expression….”In the beginning was the word”)
I begin with this because I am a woman learning to express, honor and embrace my voice in new, more expansive ways. I have known too much struggle in my life and I can see clearly now that many of the major lessons and tests that I’ve endured in my life have been connected to me either seeing myself more clearly or needing to express myself more clearly. SPEAKING UP and OUT, allowing my voice to be heard, as well as learning to listen to and trust the wisdom of my inner voice. We all have our gifts, and I recognize mine as a power source for me and my elevation…whether I’m singing or not.
Simultaneously, I know that my voice and what I have to give is not for my elevation alone, and the need to share is here.
I am a singer/songwriter daydreaming of a reality that will allow me to create, produce and perform music full time. What does this mean? It means that I have to keep my dreams alive and work extra hard to remain focused on my heart’s desire to communicate my expression of love through my music, all while balancing being a single mother of 3, and working a fulltime. Have I mastered it? Hell Naw!!! But, I am continuing to figure out new strategies to make my process easier. One thing that I’ve had to become ok with as of late, is the process of elimination. “Exponential Living” a phrase coined by Sheri Riley, where she touches on the idea of how to stop spending 100% of your time on 10% of who you are…where busyness doesn’t always mean productive and opportunity can sometimes be the distraction keeping you from focusing on your true calling.
You are a woman of many talents! You are the creator of the Mirror Magic Movement as well as Yellow Brick Chics. Can you explain to our readers what these two movements represent and the basic origins behind them?
Yellow Brick Chics – Where the Mother-Musician Shines – is a community focused on women empowerment, specifically for mother-musicians and women creatives of color needing inspiration to stay on their creative path. The character symbolism of the Wizard of Oz story and the journey of the yellow brick road calls for a closer look at the tools we already have within us to succeed. Let’s take a brief look at the lessons the main characters present:
Scarecrow: We see that he had to believe in the wealth of his mind and intellect, but what we really learn from him is the importance that CONFIDENCE has on our progress. It’s not by accident that Dorothy meets Scarecrow first on her journey. Dispelling the illusion of the crows represents the fear, doubt and insecurity that we must confront in our own head first, in order to achieve our goals.
Tin Man: Simply teaches LOVE. It is truly one of the most powerful emotional forces on earth. Yes, love is kind, love is patient, but what is forgotten of love, is its power of self-acceptance and the ability this gives us to be in a continuous flow of living in the moment. What does living in the moment do? It allows you complete freedom!!!! The foundation of Yellow Brick Chics as a platform is to empower women creatives and musicians to succeed! Every successful creative (or any successful person) I have listened to and researched has found a way to live in this self-actualized space, which can only come by accepting OR unconditionally loving you!!!
Lion: In regards to the lessons of COURAGE, the best quote I heard my mentor tell me was:
“FEEL THE FEAR AND DO IT ANYWAY.”
After hearing her say it enough times, along with doing some very intentional me-work, I started to see the real reason my career and goals hadn’t taken flight! IT WAS ME!!!!!!!! I kept waiting on the person who I thought would be more qualified to come and save me and fix my problems. I also kept myself from moving forward because I lived inside the entrapment of perfectionism. Deliberately and at my own pace I’ve been stepping out of boxes and comfort zones, moving into areas of the complete unknown, even stumbling a bit along the way. Through it all, there are two things I know for sure: #1. When you take one step, the universe takes it with you (not for you) and #2. When you take that one step you become less afraid to take the next one after that…ultimately leading to a life that is unstuck!
Mirror Magic was born from YBC for 2 reasons. First, on the yellow brick road, Dorothy ultimately had to find out that she had the power all along. There was no one else who could get her home, but herself. The process of self-reflection is a necessary tool; it is a journey unto itself that allows you to explore your true identity and the potential of your personal power. Isn’t this home?
The second reason for Mirror Magic’s development into a platform is the need to create community and conversation around beauty, worth, identity and relationships.
As a woman, there are roles and responsibilities that are systematically placed on our heads that we’re expected to maintain, that may have nothing to do with our actual identity. How debilitating to our personal developement is it to experience this? Times are changing and we are seeing more bad-ass mamas out here on the scene making the balance of motherhood and artistry look easy, but far too often women are still forced, discouraged and negatively labeled for wanting to pursue their dreams. It’s easy to want to give up. I have wanted to give up many times, but where there is a will, there is a way. In addition to the Mirror Magic affirmations I started posting on social media, I began these mini-features to highlight the beauty of the sister-reflections around me.
The reflections of my sisters, shining and being their brilliant selves, was another type of motivation that needed more recognition. We’re so ready to jump on the tails of celebrity status, but what about the homegirls in your networks giving the goddess-shine? If I lose my way and forget how beautiful I am, or how worthy I am, but I see my sister showing me, all praises due to her. How many times have you been out and received an unexpected compliment for your hair, smile or outfit? Changed your whole day didn’t it? The mini features were based on the same premise. As my sister, if you have enough courage to take the time to love yourself enough for the world to see through your works, it’s our obligation as a community to give props where props are due….and I don’t feel like I need your permission to tell you how beautiful you are. It’s an obligation. Everybody needs to feel appreciated and wants to be recognized. This is an especially crucial practice for women to heal ourselves through our relationships with each other. Mirror Magic is growing and I continue to receive these “downloads” of all the many directions it can go. I did a MirrorMagic live event last summer in Atlanta and looking forward to continuing the development of the platform through more events, courses and even individual Mirror Magic healing sessions. Im still downloading and receiving, but because of the practice of Mirror Magic, I’m no longer clenching to the inspiration in fear, unsure if it will be received. I am happy to finally share with you what it is and how it can be applied in your life as well.
What I love about your Mirror Magic Movement is the emphasis put on self-reflection. I personally feel self-esteem or the lack thereof heavily influences our life journey and the choices we make. What advice would you give our readers struggling with this very issue?
Let me tell you about insecurity. It’s a sneaky lil bitch that hides in the corners and just when you think you’re good and ready to fly, here she comes with the doubt and the fear. Self-reflection is a personal, intimate process of assessment, investigation, exploration…that takes you into the crevices, the corners, the shadows and dark places to get to the root of where the fear or blockage is held. I have not perfected it, but I AM working through it. Just recently in the last few months, I’ve come to my own realizations about where I am on my path (of success) and how the lack of sound self-esteem has hindered my progress. You have to be willing to confront yourself and all of your shortcomings. One day it just dawned on me like…”oh, I’ve actually been dealing with insecurity all this time”. Once you start digging and asking yourself questions, the process is ongoing. One thing leads to another that leads you to another, like a puzzle or treasure hunt that you’re determined to solve or find. There’s a factor of accountability that can’t be ignored through Self-Reflection. When you continue to dig, you also start to eliminate false realities and assumptions of power. Self-Reflection takes away the Jesus-Complex or the idea that someone outside of The Self can save you and you are realigned with an awareness of your own personal seat of power – The Goddess-Complex. You have to be willing to ask yourself the questions that only you can answer though. There is no one else that can do this for you. This level of empowerment is organic and comes from you. You are your savior.
Here at Twisted. Curly. Cool. we thrive on inspiration from others. Tell us some of your favorite women and how their stories inspire you.
My grandmothers have inspired me greatly. My mother’s mother, Isabel Cain (RIP) was an influential music clergy in the church we grew up in and she made sure that we received the gift of music very early. She also taught me the power of prayer. She would say “Don’t forget to pray throughout the day, even it’s just a word or a short phrase”. This stuck with me and actually not until now have I realized how much her influence and teachings on the power of speaking prayer, planted the seed for my understanding of what Mirror Magic is today.
My father’s mother has also been a great inspiration to me. Vel Phillips, was the first woman and African-American to become the Secretary of State of Wisconsin. She was the first to be a black woman judge in the state and fulfilled many other trailblazing roles. Only in her 90’s have I seen this woman begin to slow down. She’s been a shark, relentlessly pursuing the plight of freedom and justice for the community to which she belongs. Her servitude and dedication are great sources of inspiration for me.
Anyone who knows Mocha, knows I love quotes. I am empowered by them. I am inspired by them. A quote that I live by is “Self Esteem is realizing you are the Dream” by Oprah Winfrey. Do you have a favorite quote that empowers you?
1. “Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway”
2. “No Mud, No Bud”
We want to hear more from you. Are there any future projects from Luna Lotus Love our readers should be looking out for? How can our readers contact you for more information?
Yes, Yes!! A few new things are coming up. I’m preparing to release Mirror Magic, the single. So new music is coming soon. I’m really excited about this one because I’ve been taking some time to really develop my sound and I think I’ve found it here. I’m also preparing to release a Mirror Magic e-book: “6 Easy-Step Guides to Working with Mirror Magic”. I’m almost finished with it and will be aiming to release the e-book close to the time of the single. I will also be launching a few mini Mirror Magic video docs that introduces the platform and how to apply it in your life. As stated previously, I did a live Mirror Magic event last year and I’ll be creating more of these spaces in 2018.
Thank you so much for blessing us with your knowledge and feminine energy. Do you have any final words of inspiration for our readers?
Remember Mama Eartha!!
Eatha Kitt said this in response to love and relationships
• What is compromising?
• Compromising for what?
• Compromising for what reason?
• To compromise?
• For what?
• To compromise.
• What is compromise?”